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Then just like classic Jekyll and Hyde, he changed into a freak. He began to berate and demoralize me. Soon, I had to block him from e-mailing me., but before I did he told me, “Yeah…I’ve met and bedded at least 100 women from ‘fillintheblank.com.’ It was like taking candy…”

Ouch! I totally got played…Then I totally went to the OB/Gyn for a full STD panel.

Live & learn the hard way. That’s how I like it. Or, how I USED to like it…

9Crazy Computer Dad January 24, 2008 at 11:38 pm

I’ve been a full time single parent since Nov 2001, and dating can be great, and it can be hell.

There is a book called “Emotionally Unavailable” that is great for at least understanding why some people are as broken as they are, especially if you are feeling like it was your fault that the relationship went awry. There is a lot of good information in there either way though.

I had one relationship that ended nearly amicably. The others were pretty harsh, but in each case I have been the one to end it. There never is a good time or a good way…or maybe I just don’t have the knack, but when it gets to the point that for one reason or another I am not attracted to the person any more and I don’t see a future with them, I tell them my feelings and I tell them that we need to end the relationship. In each case they were the only person I was involved with, my attention was all on them, but it just wasn’t working out. I didn’t leave anyone to pursue someone else, they just were not the right people. Regardless, they are usually pretty angry about it and I hear from them and their friends (which never know the whole story mind you).

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