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There was one woman that I adored from the moment I first started talking to her, and I still do (even though we don’t talk anymore). We dated twice, the first time for nine months, the second for eighteen. Both breakups were hard, but she lied, cheated, and manipulated me both times…The problem was that I didn’t realize all of that until the end the second time. I thought the first time was all my fault because I didn’t make enough money, was paying off a large debt from my marriage, not getting any child support (and still don’t), and continuing my education. I still don’t know the whole story, never will, but I know enough to stay away from her no matter what I feel from now on.

 

I”m learning to find the balance between what I need to do for my son, what I need to do for me, what I need to do for my girlfriend, and what I need to do for my friends, family, etc. It isn’t easy.

 

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10Flowerchild80 September 10, 2008 at 10:57 am

Hi, love this topic. Last year I was dumped by my “serious” boyfriend of a year by the “Sabatoge”. And come to think of it after we broke up with me he refused speak to me and give me insights into what went wrong. Anyways…it was the most painful breakup I’ve had in my life and Im 28, I’ve had several relationships. For anyone that is reading this, please DO NOT EVER use this tactic. It causes much turmoil and trauma and removes the possibility of ever being civil with the person. I just had to go to a wedding where this ex was and it was so miserable and awkward….I cant even look the guy in the eye.

 

I cannot speak as to being a single mom as I am, after all, a man. But I can imagine being single and taking care of your child (or children) and having that feeling of fulfillment.